At A Loss For Words

I am at such a loss for words today, which for those of you who know me, know that is a very rare occurrence indeed.

My heart goes out to one of my best friends who is losing his wife. She is losing her fight, and it's been a long fight. This moment has been in the background of all our minds for a few years now, but it's still a huge shock and a massive feeling of loss and disaster just the same.

I won't go into details about his situation because it's not my place here. I just wanted to say that this friend of mine is one my dearest and oldest friends. And at this moment, I feel so lost, so powerless, so useless. And I wish I could just make it all good again for him. Because if there's one person in this world who deserves that, it's him.


CaJoh said…
Our hearts go out to your friend who is going through such a difficult time.
Blonde Goddess said…
I'm so sorry.
I understand what you're going through.I too lost one of my best friends to cancer back in 1997. It was heartbreaking.
I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.
nikkicrumpet said…
I'm so very sorry. Losing a dear friend is so hard...and knowing you there is nothing you can do to make it right and better for their loved ones is frustrating. I hope you all make it through this horrible time...and are able to give each other strength. Hang in there!
Megryansmom said…
Your friend is in my thoughts and prayers.
I can see why you are at a loss of words. What words can say what you must be feeling for your friend. I feel ya, because i have been down that road a couple of times. Sorry to hear that she is going through such a hard time.
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Tenakim said…
I'm sending my prayers his way- he is lucky to have a good friend in you.
♥georgie♥ said…
will be keeping you,your friend and their family in my thoughts and prayers
Jane! said…
So sorry for him. And you.
Anonymous said…
I am so sorry for your friend. It's just awful.
Mary, there are never words to say. There is no way to prepare for this. I am so sory you are having to go through this, but I feel certain you will do everything right and help your friend find the peace he needs right now to get through this. I'll be thinking about and praying for all 3 of you. Please keep us posted~
Chatabox Girl said…
My thoughts are with you. It is hard when you see your best friends hurting.

Be strong, for him and for you.

We are all here for you.
Dorsey said…
My heart is with you today. Be well
Megryansmom said…
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Anonymous said…
Death is a part of life, but it is definitely one of the more difficult aspects to life.

My heart goes out to you and your friend who is in need.

:) {hugs}
I'm sorry about your friend :(
Soxy Deb said…
Oh Mary, my heart goes out to all involved.

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